| Casino wrote: |
| No matter how big a guy might be, Nicky would take him on. You beat Nicky with fists, he comes back with a bat. You beat him with a knife, he comes back with a gun. And you beat him with a gun, you better kill him, because he’ll keep comin’ back and back until one of you is dead. |
How do you deal with a person who is so driven that they will go to any length to get what they want from you, to the point that when you tell them to stop demanding things of you, or else…they will simply keep upping the stakes? What do you do for someone who is absolutely willing to go for broke? What do you do against someone who is willing to destroy everything in order to get your obedience? What do you do to stop someone who simply won’t take no for an answer?
Well, it depends on how much this person matters to you. If they don’t matter much, then you just ignore them. But if they do matter to you, then I would find out why they are so keen on getting what they want from you. Why does it matter so much to them, enough to destroy everything in the face of not getting it.
Situationally, you have to ask yourself if you’d really be out that much by giving in. Yet, you don’t want to give in too much, either. It’s a cruddy place to be at, man. I think every person will have a different way of handling such a situation appropriately.
Personally, unless it is, like, a parental unit – I just don’t surround myself with that type, and I tend to purposefully distance myself from any who come to me. If it’s family, though, I just cater to it when I can and try to ignore the annoyance, but otherwise tell them (as often as necessary) that they need to back off before I say something I’d regret.
Kill her/him. No but do tell them to butt-off, and if they don’t understand that they don’t know you enough. If you girlfriend or you friends or buddies or camerads don’t see that they are not your friend, they don’t diserve your friendship. If they keep calling you or keep bugging you with it tell him to butt-of! KICK THEIR ASSES! Sorry for my anger, some guys are screaming arounf me and i’m trying to block my anger now.
..Tiny DV8