A Profession As a Lifestyle

I was recently told a story about a guy who wasn’t cut out to be a lawyer at a big law firm because he was more of a “heavy metal guy” than a lawyer. It struck me as odd that those things could be mutually exclusive until I realised that a large law firm probably don’t want non-conformists – at least not in a certain sense. I’m sure they’ll be delighted with someone creatively non-conformist who can get attain success by looking at things in a different light, but I can see how that person not being the suite-and-tie type might interfere with their view of how their business should be run. I think that what you’ll get is the belief that a choice of profession – in this case, being a lawyer – is a choice of lifestyle; dressing a certain way, acting a certain way, doing particular things, etc. If you’re surrounded by the same type of people at work for twelve hours a day, who all try to act according to what they’ve been taught someone in your profession looks and acts like, you’ll become convinced that the stereotype – or rather, the archetype – is true. It’s a self-affirming situation.

I understand the push to remove individuality in the military. I understand that large companies might want to do the same; conformity is easier to manage, after all. It does offend me, however, to think that I would have to move away from desire to be stereotype disconfirming in order to excercise a particular profession. Companies like Google embrace the differences that define us as individuals instead of part of the herd, and yet, they can probably also only allow that up until a certain point before your quirks and oddities start interfering with their ability to get you to do what they need you to do, so even there individual expression, while not stifled, is put to bounds. Perhaps people’s tendency to be underachievers, coupled with the unnatural instinct to be individuals, free to express themselves however they feel, leads to less success driven people who have jobs rather than careers. It’s often said that in order to be successful at your career, you have to liveyour chosen field, rather than just work in it.

And yet, the concept of letting your profession dictate your life to the extent that your profession has become your lifestyle, bothers me.

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